I simply do not enjoy either. Year after year I’ve tried, and year after year I’ve failed. I don’t like surprises. I don’t like being given things that I have no use for. I rarely like being given thing that I did not ask for. The last one is a product of my upbringing, and being called selfish when I never asked for anything to begin with. I don’t like people having something over me. Something to rub in and complain about. That’s exactly what presents are in my eyes. I’m also a conventional person. Everything in my life needs to have a purpose, otherwise it’s just loose change sitting around. I don’t like that.

I told my mom I didn’t want anything, but I’m pretty sure she bought something anyway. If I don’t like it I’m not going to pretend I do. I’m tired of pretending, only to still get called names because I don’t use whatever the item is. If I don’t like/need whatever they bought me, I’m vocalizing that fact. Telling them to get a refund. I don’t care if I get called various names. I told them not to get anything in the first place, but no one listens to me. Their fault, not mine.

cinniie:

But my question is just—what is defined as “attention seeking” as far as being bi is concerned?

Normal Bisexual: I want some noodles.

Attention-Whore Bisexual: OMG OMG OMG OMG YOU GUIZE LOOKIT ME IM A FLAMING BISEXUAL I LIKE GUYS AND GIRLS AND LLAMAS AND DUCKS OMG OMG OMG LOOK AT ALL MY RAINBOW STUFF IM LIKE A WALKING BAG OF SKITTLES IM SO BISEXUAL OMG THERES A BI FLAG OM I HAVE TO GET IT LOOKIT ME YOU GUIZE IM BISEXUWELZZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!

I feel positive that I’m straight but sometimes I might have a fantasy about being with a girl. Does this make me bi or just curious? I’m a little confused.

In my opinion sexuality is totally fluid. One minute you may like men and the next women, then both, then neither. You just have to be open enough to let whatever happens, happen. One’s sexuality is not that big a deal. Whatever it may be, it’s asnatural as breathing air.

That being said…

The next time you go out, take note of how you feel around other girls and the things you think. When a girl walks by, see whether you think “She’s so pretty…I like her shoes” or “DAMN THAT GIRL IS FOINNNNNNNNNNNE!!!!” Do you look at the girl herself [features, curves, etc] or her outfit? If you’re single and willing to open up, try talking to girl in that fashion. But don’t lead her on if things aren’t how you thought. Gays [usually] hate to be the “test of sexuality” guinea pig. If you’re really bisexual, it should come naturally, just like talking to a guy [assuming you’ve experienced that]. May be a bit awkward at first but it shouldn’t feel like you’re forcing yourself to like the conversation/feelings/etc. And if you don’t want to act on things, just wait it out and see how it all goes.

Hopefully this mini-ramble was actually of assistance. If not, tell me in my FS and when my brain is more gathering in the morning, I’ll re-respond.

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G’night Tumblr.

I’m IMing random people I don’t even follow. He probably thinks I’m a damn psychopathic stalker. Whatever. This is me being social people. Soak it in.

Yes ma’am. Allen is my broman…we go back like 4 flats on a Cadillac.

[Anyone who can tell me where that’s from gets a cookie.]

I feel like some FS love:

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Because I mean…you can change your name and gender…so why not your age?